The Beyoncé Phenomenon and Eliminating Poverty

I connect to the idea of purpose. The idea that every one of us is here for a reason and has something unique and wonderful to share with the world. It’s ironic that despite this beautiful gift percolating inside of us, there are moments when our daily tasks seem disconnected from our purpose, from the contribution our existence makes to the world. This disconnect is perhaps most pronounced in circumstances of poverty. In some ways, poverty of resources or control can devolve into poverty of purpose. (Others have written on this). What is worse, the very systems that are meant to address poverty, risk re-enforcing this disconnect by failing to invest in people and communities. Some have termed this the institutionalization of poverty.

Now, I am no expert on poverty. But as a pediatrician I am particularly aware of the power present in the vulnerable among us and I do know about investing in people. It is all about recognizing other people’s contribution (or potential). To do so, we must first connect to OUR contribution. Nelson Mandela said it best when he quoted a Marianne Williamson poem saying, “As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.”

The best (and most vivid) recent example of this is Beyoncé’s Superbowl halftime show. When asked about her upcoming performance at the pre-bowl press conference, she simply stated, “This is what I was born to do.” And judging by a performance in which even her strut seemed unapologetic-ally fierce, I think we all believe her. There is something powerful about her being who she is that inspires her fans to excellence as well (Am I being too transparent here?)

Bringing it back to medicine, I think there is a similar reciprocity inherent in works of service – whereby in finding something in ourselves and nurturing it, we can then identify and nurture the gifts of others.

In my mind, understanding and embracing this concept is key to meaningful welfare reform and any hope of eliminating poverty. Yet, sometimes our daily tasks as service providers seems disconnected from our role in empowering people and communities.

Here are 4 simple questions we can use to reflect on our purpose and connect to the people we serve:

1. What are my unique gifts and how do I use my gifts in a way that matters? (Meaning)

2. How can my gifts invite others to share their gifts with the world? (Empower)

3. How can I value the gifts of others at times when they are not aware of them themselves? (Insight)

(And for those of us in the policy world) 4. How can we make this process generational? (Security)

Ultimately, welfare, or providing for the well-being of others, should not simply be about the money we give to families. At its best, it should be about maximizing a community’s opportunity to contribute to society in meaningful ways – ways that empower, provide insight, and create security. Doing so, will require a public investment in education, health, and the economic development of the under-served. But the benefits have the potential to reverberate throughout the rest of society; as the plight of the least of us will continue to define our character as a nation who claims that everyone has a right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

Did I just try to connect self-actualization, poverty, health, and Beyoncé? Guess I did.

How have you helped others realize their contribution to the world?

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The Power of No

One of my mentors recently asked me to take on a project that’s not my cup of tea. Have you ever had a mentor persuasively ask you to do something you have no interest in doing? I was all…

As I refine my interests, I want to be selective about the opportunities I embrace. Working in settings where doing more is rewarded, makes it hard to figure out what “more” I should and shouldn’t be doing and stressful to pass on the yes train to success. As young professionals, we basically spend our youth forging opportunities and when one is placed in our lap, it’s hard to turn away the gift…even if it it’s not what you and Santa discussed. But, somehow, like my 2 year old patients, I have come to believe in the power of “No.”

“No” has power when you allow it to define your priorities. The power is in the discernment. So how can we invoke this power when we feel pressured (by ourselves or others) to do something that doesn’t align with our goals or interests?

I have a few ideas.

1. Ask for transparency and be transparent. Perhaps you lack insight into your mentor’s vision or they are unaware of your goals. Use the moment as an opportunity to clarify your mutual interests.

2. When stretched too thin, decline something you risk doing poorly. Overextending yourself may reflect negatively on your work ethic or professionalism.

3. Recognize that sometimes, you need to say yes! Good sensei’s should challenge you in ways that help you grow. These ways may not always be apparent, but can lead to new opportunities.

4.  “Great is the enemy of done” (thanks Dr. Michelle Hermiston!). Perfectionism can impede productivity. Find out what commitment is required and when time is tight and you are stretched, let “done” be good enough.

5. When all else fails, go to the bathroom (or wherever you collect your thoughts), look in the mirror and say…

YOU. Know that you are in charge of your destiny and despite your best intentions some opportunities will be squandered. Move on as quickly as possible. It is your willingness to get messy and commitment to try your best (see Playing Like a Champion) that will carry you to where you’re meant to be.

As young pups in the game, a thoughtful “No” may be the greatest tool in our professional toolbox. This week, let “No” be a step towards something you want for yourself!